Thursday, May 10, 2012

Birthdays, Funerals, & Mothers Day

It's been a few weeks since my last post.  Since that last post our family has had two granddaughters celebrate their birthdays in April, and one grandson will be celebrating his birthday next week.

Lilly Grace turned 7 on April 4th, the same day as her great uncle (Wayne).  Then on April 25 was Ashlyn Taylor's big day, and she is now 11.  Oh how time flies!  Here is a photo of the birthday girls with their mother Jamie.


We've got another grandson celebrating his birthday next week, Tony will be 15 on May 17th. Hard to believe we've got two grandsons driving now, Tony will get his learners and the Josh (his older brother who just turn 16 back on March 28th) will be or has already gotten his drivers licence.  I remember when that was a rite of passage for many young people.....getting that drivers license spelled freedom for so many teens.  Let me now put the State of California on notice, two new driver will be hitting the road Port Hueneme, and Port Mugu Naval Complex better be ready too.  Large SUV driven by either a blond or red haired young man, give them plenty of room......   Here is a photo of Tony, it is his school photo from this year.


As much as the month has been a blessing, it has also brought tears.  My uncle Jackie passed a couple weeks ago, Larry's aunt and the mother of our sister-in-law Judy passed last week.  So we went to Dalton, GA for my uncles funeral two weeks ago, and this past weekend we went to Dothan, AL for Judy's mothers.  It's been nice spending time with family, but it's so sad to see so many that we've know thru out the years leave us to go home to be with the Lord and the rest of their families.  That is one thing I know that I will see them all again someday.

Well "Mothers Day" is fast approaching, we planning on visiting both our mothers on Saturday.  We again will be traveling a little, my folks live in Chatsworth GA, and Larry's live in Red Bank, TN.  So it's do able visit both in the same day.

Since we've been keeping the road hot with the funerals. Larry and I need some time just to do nothing, get some well deserved rest.  Maybe even take in a movie.  Have you ever wished for 48 hours of peace?  Oh well, they say life is short, so I guess we will be glad to just get an hour here or there.

Hope everyone is doing great, until I write again.

Peace to ALL


Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Weather and What My Grandparents Would Have Said


This is such odd weather for the month of April in Tennessee this year.  Our temperatures started out extremely high for the month, to the point that we broke records.  Now to everyone surprise this week there was snow forecasted for the Smokey Mountains, and our highs have been only in the low 60's.  Mostly this month our highs have been in the 80's. The reason this is so odd is that we have already had Blackberry Winter.

In discussing the weather, family, and friends all have been discussing the latest cold snap.  Our grandparents taught us in the south not to plant our tomato plants before Blackberry Winter. Every gardener knows there are vagaries of weather following the first warm days in early spring, but not all people know their names, or that they have names, and why. 

Old-timers in the Appalachians know there are several named "winters" following winter, and Blackberry Winter is perhaps the best known. There is also Dogwood Winter, Locust Winter, Whippoorwill Winter, Redbud Winter, and even Linsey-Woolsey Britches Winter.

Long before there were visuals on TV showing long-range weather patterns of the jet stream and ocean currents, local folks had sure signs for when to plant and when to wait.  In the eastern United States, especially the Appalachians, most of that seasonal lore was named, and is still used by the old-timers today. 

 Dogwood Winter occurs about the time the dogwoods bloom, usually between mid-April and mid-May, varying from year to year (this year that happened in early March).  In some areas, Blackberry Winter and Dogwood Winter occur at the same time (which happened late March early April for us), while those living two or three states away may experience two distinct, separate cold snaps.  The old-timers knew it usually happens when the dogwoods are in bloom. With the possibility of frost happening during Dogwood Winter, they also knew to wait until after the dogwood bloomed to plant tender vegetables and annuals. Native Americans watched for the dogwood blooms as the sign to begin planting corn and other crops.

Blackberry Winter old-timers also knew that blackberries need a cold snap to set buds on the blackberry canes, so as sure as night follows day, there will be a cold snap when the blackberries bloom, called Blackberry Winter.  In some areas, a late cold snap occurs with the blooming of the locust trees usually before the dogwoods bloom or the redbuds. So you have Locust Winter, and Redbud Winter happening after the first flush of warm spring days and before Dogwood Winter and Blackberry Winter.

Locust Winter generally isn’t as long or cold as Blackberry Winter. 

Linsey-Woolsey Britches Winter, a term not used so much anymore.  Linsey-Woolsey Britches Winter was once a popular term, back when winter clothing was homespun of linen/wool, and winters were harsher. It was the last time in spring that you’d need "long johns" before trading them for short sleeves, and it usually came about the time of Blackberry Winter. 

The last gasp of cold weather is Whippoorwill Winter.  It is actually a herald of warmer days coming to stay for the summer. The whippoorwill migrates from wintering in Mexico to their summer range farther north in late May to early June. Whippoorwill Winter not as cold as the other “winters” but still a bit of cold snap lest we forget

Since I'm into old sayings, here are a few more:

Red Sky in the Morning, Sailors Take Warning.
Red Sky at Night, Sailors Delight.
A red sky in the morning indicates that storms and rain can be expected within 24 hours, whereas, a red sky at night indicates clear skies for the next 24 hours.

When the Dew is in the Grass, Rain will Never Come to Pass.
When Grass is Dry at Morning Light, Look for Rain Before the Night.   
Dew forming overnight indicates fair weather, whereas no dew forming indicates rain.

A summer fog for fair, a winter fog for rain....
Ground fog is summer indicates fair weather, whereas ground fog in winter forecast rain.

Clear nights - cold days.
This is especially true in winter, early spring, late fall, and especially after a rain.

When forests murmur and mountains roar, close your windows and shut the doors.
When sound travels long distances, expect rain soon.


All of my flowers including shrubs have bloomed, and turned their new green for the year.  Springtime is such a lovely new bright green.  Even my large oaks had their leaves before April 1st.  Odd indeed.

Monday, April 2, 2012

Spring is here.....well at my house anyway.  Here is a photo of some of my Azaleas, they are just lovely this time of year.


We've got 2 more grandchildren having Birthdays in April.  Our youngest granddaughter Lilly Grace will be 7 this Wednesday, and her older sister Ashlyn will 11 at the end of the month.  Both Larry's and my brothers named Wayne have birthdays in April.  Let's see Birthdays, Easter, and Taxes, yeah going to be busy April.

Hope everyone survived April Fools Day, we have three friends who all were April Fool surprises for their parents.  Phyllis, Mike, and Danny are friends whom all share April 1st as their birthday.  Such a neat day to have a birthday.  How about you, know anyone that was born on Leap Year, or April Fools?

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Birthdays and More

Over the last two weeks we have had two grandsons get a year older.  Isaiah is now 10 and his older brother Josh is 16 today. Not only do we have these boys getting older, but two of our granddaughters are going to be older in April.  Busy time in our house with grandkids birthdays especially since we now have 8 total.  They range in ages 4 months to 16 years, we are blessed indeed.

Now concerning our church family, we have decided to give our home church a few more weeks to see if it improves and they might stops the drama.  If not we will continue on our journey to fine another place.  Spoke openly about my concerns to the pastor when he called to invite us back.

Here is a photo of today's birthday boy.  Remember he's 16 were lucky to get any photo of him.


Tuesday, March 13, 2012

Changes

Are there any good reasons to change churches? I believe there are. A life-change may bring about a need to change. For instance, if you get married, and your spouse had gone to a different church than you. I would think you would both want to worship in the same church, so one—or both—are going to need to make a switch.  Likewise, if you go through a divorce, I doubt you will want to stay in the same church as your ex. Awkward.

I suppose if there is a huge doctrinal shift in your church or in your denomination that you just cannot abide, you may feel the need to make a change. But even there I would be very cautious.  Just what church is going to have perfect doctrine, at least your version of “perfect”?

Is it important to stay in the same church for a long period of time? Or is church-swapping a right all Americans have? Now that I mention it, is this a unique problem for American churches, or do people in other countries change their church allegiance as frequently as Americans do?

Perhaps I am just old-fashioned. Perhaps I am hopelessly out-of-date. I do realize that at times God is going to come on some and lead people to another church.  God can and does lead some to do things we might question.  But I think these are the exceptions. (And if God is in the leading, it is an exception you must follow.)   For the most part,  I think we imperfect people need to select an imperfect church and stay there.

My husband and I have been blessed to be a part of our church since the beginning.  We started out in a office building of a Trustee for two weeks, moved to a mall within 3 weeks, and built a new building within 3 years.  Currently our church is at year 6 and have had our share of issues as with any church.

So it is with heavy hearts that my husband and I have made a decision to change churches. This wasn't anything we take lightly, we even resisted the Lords gentle push.  After several weeks on bended knees and prayers.  Larry and I realized it is time that we change churches.

I'm so excited to see what church the Lord has in store for us in the future, a new journey begins.

Sunday, March 11, 2012

Beautiful Day The Lord Has Made

The entire weekend has been beautiful.  Larry & I got out and did a little yard work, and I do mean little.  It wasn't his fault this time, the first beautiful weekend, we decided to just get out and putter around.  Had good intentions, but didn't pan out well. 

First up on Saturday was checking into adding more stuff to our lawn to help the grass.  Went back to Lowes, and decided we just needed to get a truck load of top soil dumped in our front yard, and start over.  My job will be to get the cost on said truck loads of soil....  Then today made the decision to purchase new cushions for our outside swing, and purchase a new cover.  Went to Southeastern Salvage who has always had wonderful prices in the past.  But alast, didn't have any outdoor cushions yet, said check back soon. 

Both of these trips resulted in us riding around North GA, and Hamilton County looking at other peoples wonderful weekend work.  Yards everywhere are looking good.  Our poor yard has had a hard time between the weather this past year, and our large oaks who starve the grass for water, and keeps the grass too shaded.  Hopefully we will get this yard into shape before long.

Daylight Savings Time, well what can I say about this. I like having the daylight when I get home from work.  But my system will take weeks to adjust.  The body doesn't adjust as fast as I would like it to sometimes, and time change is one of the hardest. This new daylight in the evening will allow me to get more yard work done durning the week rather than only on weekends.  So another good thing.

On another note, our pastor Dr. Dennis Newman will be back in the pulpit full time.  He had taken a little time off to deal with his health, and his good friend Rev. Jerry Redmen filled in for him.  It's going to be great seeing Dennis back where he belongs, but sad to say goodbye to Jerry.  Thus is life, always changing!

Ok, project this evening is to read Sunday paper, go thru some magazines, and sort thru my coupons.

Wish me luck.

Friday, March 9, 2012

Chivalry Isn't Dead

Well today I decided to go to Lowe's at lunch and purchase grass seed and soil.

Well since I've had my hip replacement, I feel so much better that I forget I can not do everything I did before.  I say all this in an effort to explain.  You see I purchased some soil, which weighted 38.5 #'s dry, we had heavy rain last night, and all these bags now hold moisture, which makes these bags weight a lot more that the 38.5 #'s.  So I pulled a bag from the top of a pallet into my shopping cart aka buggy which requires some maneuvering on my part.

I picked up my other items, checked out, and retrieved plastic to lay in the back of my SUV.  Once I got out to my SUV, placed the plastic in the back, I picked up the bag.......   Well I must say I tried to pick up my bag of soil, I couldn't lift this bag, I was shocked, and amazed.  I've never not been able to lift something like this.  This is were the Chivalry Isn't Dead comes into play.  A young man in his mid 30's must have noticed that I kept trying every-way I could think of to maneuver this bag out of my buggy.   He said "Mame can I help", I gladly stepped aside and allowed this wonder man the opportunity to HELP ME!  He had me loaded everything in-about 2 seconds, even returned my buggy, he was such a gentlemen.

I can always say I'm proud to be from the south.  Most men in the south sincerely offer to help people.  This is the way they were raised by their mothers, and the way they hope others treat their mothers, wife's, or daughters.